After posting my Valentine’s Day gift picks for her earlier this week, I got a flood of DMs on Instagram asking for help with little gifts for him! This is actually my first non-single Valentine’s Day in a decade (literally!) so while I may not be an expert by experience, gift-giving is something I take lots of pride in, and always one of my favorite services to help clients with, too.
While I don’t think guys expect much in terms of Valentine’s Day gifts, I think it’s always fun to surprise your loved ones with a little somethin’ somethin’. While I’m pretty positive no guy would ever turn down lingerie, I understand that can be on the more stressful side of gifts to give! For those that are more modest or in a newer relationship, simply switching out your everyday nude undergarments with something a little sexier is sure to be a welcome surprise. (And yes, I really hope my dad is not reading this post. 🙃) You can’t go wrong with a lacy bralette and a matching pair of undies!
For something more cutesy, a heart-printed pair of boxers or briefs (or boxer briefs) would be great. While I think the branding is kind of vulgar, Dave (my bf) only wears this brand and swears they’re the most comfortable briefs you can buy. 🤷🏼♀️ Bloomingdale’s has a large selection of their prints, too!
A printed pair of socks with hearts or something equally as festive would also do the trick. Dave loves the Bombas ankle socks (that sadly don’t come in any fun V-Day prints), but they do have this pair of trouser socks!
For Christmas, I got Dave this silver picture frame and had a photo of his dog and me (that he took) printed to go inside. I don’t think it was his favorite gift he’s ever received, but he does have it on his desk and it’s a nice sentimental option!
If you’re looking for something more experiential, picking up some nice steaks and a good bottle of red wine would be a nice stay-at-home idea! (If you’re in Chicago, check out Paulina Market!)
And if you’re opting out of the gift route, you can’t go wrong with a funny card!
Feel free to DM me on IG if you need more ideas, wine recommendations, etc!
Links from the collage above…
1. Don’t Get Used to It Undies Card | This one made me laugh! 😂
2. Jo Malone Red Roses Candle | I’m not sure if all guys love candles as much as Dave, but if they do, this candle could be the more long-lasting equivalent to a bouquet!
3. Washable Unisex Silk Boxers | Buy these for him, but then you’ll forever have a chic pair of boxers to wear around the house! Win, win.
4. The Dating Cards | 52 Question Cards to Spark Insightful & Playful Encounters
5. Fresh Sugar Face Polish | While serums and moisturizers seem to be a foreign concept to men my age, I’ve found that they do appreciate a good cleanser. There have been a few times I’ve caught Dave poking around my toiletry bag… Apparently he loves this face wash and this leave-in hair conditioner. 😂 I don’t know for sure, but I can totally see this Fresh face polish being a winner for guys! To keep it on theme, this Strawberry Exfoliating Face Wash or this Rose Sugar Scrub could be other alternatives.
6. Spark Romance Game | 50 Ways to Deepen Your Connection
7. Saxx Ultra Boxer Briefs with the “Ball Park Pouch” | As mentioned above, the branding on these things makes me cringe, but they’re apparently life changing.
8. Can’t Wait to Get You Malone! Card | If your beau loves Posty, they’ll love this card.
9. Only Hearts Lace Thong | I haven’t personally tried Only Hearts, but they seem like a great quasi-affordable line of lacy undergarments! They’re sustainably made, manufactured in NYC, and apparently loved by a lot of celebs, too.
10. Happy Socks 3-Pack | If your guy loves a kitschy trouser sock, I’m sure he’ll love these.
11. Good Times: A Coffee Table Photo Album | I loved the look of this when I saw it! It’s a more modern-day photo album that looks like a coffee table book or would look great on a shelf. And do you know a guy that doesn’t decorate with grey?! 😂 It looks like a fun, addable book that you can also write notes or stories around the pics!
12. I’m Glad You’re As Weird As Me Candle | I mean, isn’t that the cornerstone of all relationships?!
For even more Valentine’s Day inspo, here are some fun posts to revisit from the B&S archives…
Don’t Get Used to It Undies Card | Red Roses Candle | Unisex Silk Boxers | The Dating Cards | Sugar Face Polish | Spark Romance Game | Saxx Boxer Briefs | Get You Malone! Card | Lace Thong | Happy Socks 3-Pack | Coffee Table Photo Album | I’m Glad You’re As Weird As Me Candle